I got out of a longterm relationship, and live in a small town, how do i go about meeting a nice guy?

i live in a small town and was in a long term relationship... so i didn't go out and meet people much.

is it ok to give random guys my number? where do i meet and find nice guys at?

i have VERY small boobs, am really skinny and small, and look young for my age.. which might be a problem.. but i am pretty too. and because i live in a small town... i don't know if it would be weird or not to start conversation with random people. any advice would be helpful . :]



BTW... im 20 years old.I got out of a longterm relationship, and live in a small town, how do i go about meeting a nice guy?
Hi Emily,



Listen, there is no problem with that so don't worry about it.

You should wear a lot of tight fitting skimpy clothes and put the vibe out.

If you see a cute guy just go up and say hi. After a couple of drink you might want to rub on him with your beaver.



It's all good.
I met my husband on the internet on a dating site and married him a year later, it is now 9 yrs later and we are very happy. Please do not give your number to just anyone!! You sound insecure about your size but don't let that worry you. When chatting on the net the person on the other end judges you by personality. When it is time to meet. just present yourself with confidence and everything will be fine. Just be careful and don't just grab onto any guy that shows an interest. Be choosy and let friends know exactly where you are and with whom.I got out of a longterm relationship, and live in a small town, how do i go about meeting a nice guy?
I would say church, college classes, or activity groups you are interested in like others have said. Or some aerobics classes at a local gym? I am also from a small town and met my husband at college. Do not wear skimpy clothing like what's his face said. A lady should always dress and behave modestly. Don't worry about your petite frame, lots of women would kill to look like you do. Also, you have so much time. I know it doesn't seem like it, but you do. My husband was 31 when we married.
Community college, library book club, community activities, church, etc... stay away from bars and similar venues when you 21. I would not recommend the internet, or using the post office or coffee shop bulletin boards ether (yes, i know people can find love that way but I think its a bit risky).I got out of a longterm relationship, and live in a small town, how do i go about meeting a nice guy?
Your life is just beginning at your age. You don't have to be hasty about establishing new friendships.



Some classic ways of meeting new people are church groups and interest groups. You can join a choir if you like music. Our choir organizes occasional social events. Book clubs, bowling teams, pet shows, and other gatherings can be fun. Keep reading your newspaper for announcements. Many organizations welcome new members. Also, civic organizations attract men, some of them young.



Petite people would have died out centuries ago if there weren't other folks who liked their style. Don't sell yourself short. But don't pass out your phone number to guys you meet in bars or other very casual circumstances. And do cultivate friendships with other women, both young and old. They have brothers, cousins, sons, and neighbors!