Saturday, February 18, 2012

Is it necessary to have an engagement party when both families live on the opposite side of the state?

My fiance and I just got engaged this past weekend. His family lives on the east side of the state while mine lives on the west side of the state; we live southeast of the state. Is it necessary to have 1 big party or have 2 separate parties since it would be hard for the families to meet at one place at one time? We are also not getting married for a few years anyways. New to all this please help!!!



Thanks!Is it necessary to have an engagement party when both families live on the opposite side of the state?
The point of an engagement party is for the two families to meet and get to know each other basically so they would both need to be there.



That being said, engagement parties are not requirements...they're never necessary. If you don't think parents and siblings; aunts, uncles, cousins etc can make it...don't have a party. You can always invite the parents over sometime for dinner and allow them to meet that way. So much easier and less expensive than planning a party.
It's never necessary to have an engagement party. Most people don't have them at all. The purpose of them is for the parents to formally announce the engagement and for families/friends meet each other. If you are not going to be actively planning a wedding for a few years, there really is no point in a party anyway.Is it necessary to have an engagement party when both families live on the opposite side of the state?
it's never necessary to have an engagement party. besides my own, I've only ever been to one other but I've been to about 25 weddings. so I guess most people don't bother. you could just go to dinner with each set of parents sometime soon and leave it at that. I say there are too many wedding events as it is where guests need to bring you gifts- the shower, bachelorette and bachelor party.
Not at all. We didn't have one, and we're in a very similar situation. My parents live relatively close to my husband and I, but his parents are about 1200km north of us.



Instead, we arranged a lunch the day before the wedding. My mum and stepdad weren't able to come, but my dad and grandma were able to meet his parents.Is it necessary to have an engagement party when both families live on the opposite side of the state?
There is no reason for an engagement party. It is another way for greedy couples to get more presents and money. And you may never get married. I give only one gift to anyone getting married. A shower gift or a wedding gift. I see more and more people doing the same.
Engagement parties aren't necessary at all. If a family wants to host one for you, that's nice, but it's not thought of in teh same way a reception is.
An engagement party is never "necessary" even if both families lived in the exact same city/town. An engagement party is always an optional party as is a bridal shower.
An engagement party is never necessary. Since it sounds like it would be a burden for people to travel, you can certainly skip having one.
No, actually, an engagement party is never necessary.

What happens in a health visitor introduction meeting?

My baby is due in 7 days and the health visitor is coming around today and all it says on the letter is thdifference 'introduction' what happens in this appointment? I live in the uk not sure if that makes a difference.What happens in a health visitor introduction meeting?
I live in England and all my health visitor did was introduce herself, ask how i was doing and what i'm having etc!

Also gave me a book a bit like the pregnancy one but its birth to 5 years! That was it, nothing to worry about hun. Will just be a fly in, fly out visit xWhat happens in a health visitor introduction meeting?
If its a home visit, she is just checking to see if you live in an opium den or crack house. do you have a million cats or an open fire.

To help you be prepared fro your newborn. She may have some ideas to help, or will most likely find you clean tidy and ready for the baby.What happens in a health visitor introduction meeting?
I never met my health visitor until after I had my baby, but they may check out where your baby will be sleeping and make sure it's safe and suitable, ask you how you will be feeding baby and give you advice and ask if you have any concerns :)

What is a good somewhat low priced restaurant in Houston, TX for a group meeting set up?

I live in the Uptown Park/Galleria vicinity so somewhere in that ballpark would be preferable. I would need a place that has big tables in the back for 8 to 10 people but not a LOUD restaurant. Help please? Also with a full bar!What is a good somewhat low priced restaurant in Houston, TX for a group meeting set up?
I don't know any that will have a back room for only 8 - 10 people. Most save their rooms for larger groups. So you would have people all around while you have the meeting anyway.



I know this might not be what you want, but have your considered Beck's Prime off Westheimer? The prices are reasonable, menu is varied, they serve wine %26amp; beer and the place is usually not loud.



I've seen several groups meeting in there in the past few months.



EDIT: Well, then! Let us know what you find. Hope it works out...What is a good somewhat low priced restaurant in Houston, TX for a group meeting set up?
You're going to have a hard time finding a low priced establishment with waiters and a full bar in that particular area of the city. But, try to look for an Italian chain restaurant, like Carraba's. This would be your best bet.



There's one at:



Carraba's

Woodway

(713) 468-0868

1399 South Voss

Houston, TX 77057What is a good somewhat low priced restaurant in Houston, TX for a group meeting set up?
Maybe Maggiano's? Most of the restaurants with a full bar are going to be a bit loud. Ask for a private room.





2019 Post Oak Blvd

Houston, TX

77056-4401



Phone: 713-961-2700

Fax: 713-961-4550

Carryout/Delivery Phone: 713-961-3030

Carryout Fax: 713-961-4561

Banquet Phone: 713-961-3565

Banquet Fax: 713-961-7720
Amazon grill or MI luna in RIce university or that restaurant accross from the Cheesecake factory
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  • Does anybody live in New York And likes yugioh and we can meet and duel?

    u live in new york and wana meet and duelDoes anybody live in New York And likes yugioh and we can meet and duel?
    Its not exactly safe to ask that kind of question online. The official Yu-Gi-Oh! website lists places in New York where you can go to tournaments.



    http://www.yugioh-card.com/en/events/tou鈥?/a>



    Good luck and stay safe!



    EDIT: Okay, then you can also go to a comic book store near you that might have Yu-Gi-Oh! tournaments. If your classmates like Yu-Gi-Oh! (if your classmates do like Yu-Gi-Oh!, you're so lucky. My classmates hate or pretend to hate Yu-Gi-Oh!) you could challenge them to a duel. You could also get a Yu-Gi-Oh! videogame.



    Good luck!



    EDIT: I can't use MSN, videochat, or anything. I can only duel though the comments in this same question or another question on Yahoo Answers.

    What if your live in love went out to evening coffee with a female friend?

    Now, granted, there may be nothing there. But, what if it turns out he met this woman months ago, never told you about her, and avoided telling you who he was meeting with that evening? Then, when he told you who he met with after the coffee was over, he made it seem like you didn't trust him enough, since you required information ahead of time? That you weren't giving him enough freedom? Say it's all professional, shouldn't he still have mentioned something? What if your live in love went out to evening coffee with a female friend?
    If you are living together he should have told you about it before he went out. This all seems to have a air of secrecy about it. You say " he made it seem like you didn't trust him enough". That is often a ploy used by cheaters to put the blame on the innocent party saying there is no trust. Hon, I am sorry, but the fact that you are asking this forum the question says that in your heart of hearts you know the answer.What if your live in love went out to evening coffee with a female friend?
    Yes He Should Have Told You. There Might Not Be Nothing There But A Crush But.. He Should Have Told You Or Brought You With Him. I Would Be Really Upset If My Finace' Did ThatWhat if your live in love went out to evening coffee with a female friend?
    You've answered your own question. He was being furtive and defensive. Those aren't good signs.

    What is a good way of meeting new people?

    All of my mates are going away over the summer. Any suggestions im 14 and i live in the uk.What is a good way of meeting new people?
    Quality people you may want to meet them in church, other than that join a sport's groupWhat is a good way of meeting new people?
    Join groups of go to pools or places where there are lots of people.What is a good way of meeting new people?
    Find things that you enjoy and do them, you will meet people along the way that share similar interests.

    I found suspicious text messages in my boyfriend cell phone about sex and meeting up, What should I do?

    We been together for 8 years with 2 children together and 1 from a previous relationship.

    We live together, not married yet.I found suspicious text messages in my boyfriend cell phone about sex and meeting up, What should I do?
    try to talk it out with him, try to get the point you may be wrong but before that checks your relationship, do you guys live the life you aspired to 8 years ago?
    Talk to him? Thats how relationships work, you talk with your partner. Sure it wont put a smile on his face but its the only way you will truly know whats up. You need to be comfortable talking, if you dont want to, its going to drive a wedge between you both and your lack of trust is going to drive you insane whenever he goes out. When you talk to him just ask calmy, if he says theres nothing up then he is obviously lying. You need to rethink things with him. Work on the communication because theres a strong chance he's cheating and the fact that you went through his msgs shows your lack of trust in him. You need to talk about how you both feel and what you want. If you wont, how on earth are you going to have a healthy relationship? Think in the long run. If you ignore it, you still wont trust him will you?I found suspicious text messages in my boyfriend cell phone about sex and meeting up, What should I do?
    Well id be going off my head %26amp; leaving him for good. what a f u c k ed up sleeze bag pig lieing cheater, id be out of there in a heart beat after i had all my say id be out %26gt; WITH MY children. i wouldnt put up with that at all
    sounds like he cheating on u. u might wanna talk bout it with him but then he might get mad at u. hate it when these things happened. sorry.I found suspicious text messages in my boyfriend cell phone about sex and meeting up, What should I do?
    Confront him. After that realise that you shouldn't snoop through other peoples phones.
    Confront him! Doesn't sound too good to me!



    Be prepared he's cheating.

    How would i go about meeting method man?

    He's my favorite rapper alive, but yeah any imaginative but realistic possible ideas? I live in Sydney if that helps. don't be sarcastic or stupid either your not impressing anyone thanks.How would i go about meeting method man?
    To be honest...keep checking to see if he is coming to where you're at for a concert. If he comes, you can wait outside where his bus is at or whatever. If he's not coming over to Sydney...go to California. I have a friend there who says he comes around like almost every year. I think he was in that Rock the Bells concert out in Cali. You just have to try to catch him after a show or know a promoter from that area. You could try to write him, but I am sure he gets stuff like that all the time. Hope that helps.....
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  • How do i go about meeting modeling agents?

    I would like to be signed to elite. but where do i start? I live in NYC. I'm 5'11 125 pounds. 21 years old. Am i too old? How do I start? How can i speak to modeling agencies or make appointments to speak with them?How do i go about meeting modeling agents?
    Elite does not hold open calls in NY. They make everyone send in pictures through their website, and they will call you if they think you have potential and want to see you in person



    But don't put all your eggs in one basket - send in your pictures to as many agencies as possible. These are the top ones - http://models.com/agencies/top/ but there are others like Q, Red, Click, VNY and Boss that are also worth checking out



    If there is no open call information on the agency website, you can always call to see if they have any. Ford, for example, has open calls every week.How do i go about meeting modeling agents?
    Mail them a head shot and body shot. Don't wear lingerie or try to look sexy and keep the makeup light and natural looking. If they like you, they'll call you in to take a look at you in person. If you look young in the face (have you been taking care of your skin?), you're not too old. You can also go on their website and see if they have any upcoming open calls and attend one of those.How do i go about meeting modeling agents?
    i suggest getting pictures taken (photoshoot) or simply have a friend take some with a digital camera. if you are going to do the second one, be outside in good lighting, DONT wear a lot of makeup, remember that you want to look as young as possible, and you dont want to set an image for yourself. so by wearing natural makeup and very little of it, you are showing the agency that they could put any makeup on you and it would look good, not just a certain look that you are wearing in the picture. you should wear blue fitting jeans, a white cami, with a white button up shirt on top, not buttoned. THEN, send the pictures in online. if you go to elite's website, hit apply, put in the necessary info, upload the pictures, and apply. then they might call you or email you back! good luck!
    first off, unfortunately just about everyone wants to be signed with elite. being tall and thin really doesnt cut it; everyone that sends in their photos and resumes are tall and thin, and they get thousands of submissions per week. being 21, yes, you are quite old to just be starting, and elite generally wont book a girl for fashion that has no experience and is already in her 20's. you have to have a look that is so unique, you stick out in a sea of gorgeous, tall and thin girls. also, you cant just call up the agencies and talk to an agent; if you could do that, theyd be on the phone all day, dealing with people who are dying to get signed. you have to do what everyone else does; send in specific snapshots, measurements (which they are very specific about; its not about weight, its about proportion) plus dress and shoe size (anything above a 2 or 4 isnt considered for fashion usually; unless she is a plus size girl) to the agency, and pray they see something in your that none of those other girls have. dont count on one agency to sign you, ESPECIALLY elite- they are the most competitive, reputable and selective agency in the world, and only about .1% of the girls that try to get signed with them actually do. they get really annoyed when girls call agencies with questions, so dont do it; just stick to the basic guidelines everyone has to follow. speaking with someone doesnt improve your chances, and theres nothing you can say or do to do that; its based mainly on looks on how photogenic you are.

    Can a woman of faith and a man of science agree to meet in the middle and live happy productive lives?

    I believe so.....In fact, I'm counting on it!Can a woman of faith and a man of science agree to meet in the middle and live happy productive lives?
    im not sure I would describe myself as a 'man of science'...but I'm very rational...and I had a perfectly fine relationship with a southern baptist for quite a while. Our different views never were a problem...in fact she ironically seemed to have deep respect for my opinion on many spiritual topics.

    I was also quite able to have civil debate and discussion about christianity with her fanatic family members without it ever becoming emotional...its really simple if you take the effort to approach it correctly...In fact, now that i think about it, the best way to have a civil discussion is to have such complete and good understanding of your philosophy that you really can say something about any question at all, you never hit any sort of cognitive dead end that stimulates some fight or flight emotion.
    If you respect and love each other, your faith in God and science, depending on where you find your center on both, is up to you.

    Love is tolerance too. I am assuming you're talking about a marriage, but friendships work that way too. I may not always believe in the same things my friends believe in. But if they're there for me, its not because they're people of God or science; they're there for me because they care about me.

    That's how it works. It has little to do with personal faith systems. I know a pastor who, among his friends, says he believes he is an atheist and only serves people in his church because he cares for them. To him its not about God its about helping others. Rather than preach God, he simply preaches from parables instead. Merely trying to guide people to be kind to one another. I can't imagine how anyone in his church would want to keep him there, but apparently they like him anyway.

    The point I'm getting at is, its the relationship between people. In marriage it ends when one spouse dies. It works the same with friendships in life too.

    So yes, I think you can count on it. Good luck.Can a woman of faith and a man of science agree to meet in the middle and live happy productive lives?
    Yes, I've done it, shocking as that may be to anyone who's familiar with my posts.

    Edit: Ignore Bert's post, it's founded upon naught but ignorance and faulty logic. I'm not entirely sure why he thinks I secretly don't accept scientific fact because my partner doesn't, nor do I quite get why I should pretend I don't accept scientific theories and call myself something else (though I'm not entirely sure what a 'follower of science' should be called in the first place - 'scientist' is probably closest, but I highly doubt we'd call school children who'd just learnt evolution 'scientists').
    Regardless, I certainly don't consider my university education 'false doctrine' or anything along those lines. The idea that you need to share the exact opinions as your partner is mind blowingly ridiculous.
    It depends on how set the scientist are in there ways. There are many scientist that are creationists or intelligent design oriented. However I have an in-law whom is married to a christian woman active in her church as well as him so I assumed though he was a scientist would appreciate a discussion on evolution verses creationism. to my surprise he snapped at me don't go there I have been studying evolution for 30 years. that is a lot of time invested in something to have to face the truth about. Evolutionist insist that they are right with the same blind faith they accuse us off. there are more scientist out there however then you think that believe in God. It is a precarious position for them being that the influential scientific community (renowned, accepted or any other forms or political power) will humiliate them and any mention of God may result in loss of grants or jobs. Even though there is more evidence against evolution and big bang. Unfortunately are students are being taught these theories as fact. To the question of, "Can they live happy productive lives?" My in-laws seem to be doing very well for many years. He worked at Nasa her in the church. So I think it boils down to the individual couples and what they are willing to tolerate from one another. The hope is that the other will come around. there is a scripture that says if you are saved so will be your family. But there is another that tells us not to be unevenly yoked. these are both periphrases you take it from there.Can a woman of faith and a man of science agree to meet in the middle and live happy productive lives?
    Not if they are true to what they believe.

    If she is of faith, she will try to teach him.

    If he is not of faith, he will try to teach her.

    If they "meet in the middle" they are both turning from their beliefs and should stop calling themselves what they are no longer.

    It is possible to live happy productive lives without being dedicated to your belief, so that would be where you decide what your priorities are.

    I wish you both the best in your efforts.
    I met one once, married to a women of faith. But to do it without wars every so often, cold wars or loud wars, they are all harmful, he'd have to accept that there is a God. And it would at the least have to be the same God as you've got.
    I think a man of faith and a woman of science would do well also.



    Its not one or the other. You an be very scientific and still believe that there is a greater power.
    I've seen couples like that. The just have to have a lot of mutual respect and it works out fine. Best of luck to you.
    Yes. My wife is a Christian and I'm agnostic. We have some really good conversations.
    No.



    What will your children be... The removal of distentions is EXACTLY what Satan wants..
    If they only knew where the middle was.
    Sure why not. Love has many a curious twist.
    Sure, just don't talk too much to each other....!!
    It occurs more than we know.
    maybe but it is a risk unless he can respect your beliefs...see marriage...TIRH

    How to meet taylor lautner if i live overseas?

    is there any way that i can meet my favourite celebrity and role model summer 2010 or 2011? problem is i dont live in america. or close to it! do you know how to get into events he's in? have you met him? what was it like???How to meet taylor lautner if i live overseas?
    i live in the uk and i would absolutely love to meet taylor lautner. i guess just waiting for the eclipse premiere which is next summer?How to meet taylor lautner if i live overseas?
    the premiere is in the UK next year is it in London i think i might have to go try get his autograph i love him soooo much i just wanna see him n see how tall he actually is

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    How to meet taylor lautner if i live overseas?
    I would love to know too :)

    Im 27 and moving to San Antonio. Where is the best and safest place to live to still meet people & have fun?

    All San Antonians have their prefernces, but there are nice areas all over the city. The choices are going to vary dependent on you ability to pay.





    I like the 281 corridor north of downtown. Inside loop410 you have the Quarry area, Alamo Heights and lots of nice historic areas close to the downtown area, but still outside the downtown issues. There are some great areas in Southtown, but I would rather visit them than live there, personally. Many people like the King William area, and it is very nice, but dependent on where you are, the taxes can be high for the services you recieve. In the 281/1604 area, and around Henderson Pass there are numerous apartments complexes, where younger San Antonians live, and the area has some great shopping, restaurants, and has access to the city easily on 1604 and 281. This is also one of the fastest growing areas of the city. There is a lot of new development around I-10 and 1604, and an interesting new area is being developed where there will be apartments and condos over the restaurants and stores so you can walk through the area and not have to drive as much.



    The best idea, since the area is so spread out, and mass transportation is only fair in the city, and fuel is getting high is to find a nice area near your work if possible.Im 27 and moving to San Antonio. Where is the best and safest place to live to still meet people %26amp; have fun?
    I'm also partial to the North Central and Northeast closest to North Central. I like the 281 area because it's easy access to downtown, there are many colleges very close by, you can go by car or bus to get just about anywhere. I like the quarry area because it is close to all the more eclectic artistic areas. Also lots of fun nightclubs on Broadway and downtown and 281 and 1604. If you are family oriented I would say the Northwest. If you are young and want to experience San Antonio, I would say North of downtown.
    I'm partial to the North Central and North East of San Antonio.

    I live just outside of Loop 1604 near IH-35 and have for over 20 years. I live in an older neighborhood with smaller houses (built in the 1960's and about 1000 sq ft). The cost of these are less than $100,000 and I have a yard and garage.

    The rooms are small, but I still have a house, yard, garage and money left over for a life.



    North Central has some really nice areas, nice price tags to go with them. Depends on what you can afford.



    Lots of people like the Quarry area - it's a nice area - shops, restaurants, sports bar, movies.



    Good luck!!Im 27 and moving to San Antonio. Where is the best and safest place to live to still meet people %26amp; have fun?
    i would move outside of the loop (loop 1604) not so into the city. i live out side of 410 on the geographical west side (west side to san antonians is the ghetto). if you have money and patience with development go to the northside, thats basically the most decent area of the city.



    maybe right outside of the county line in guadalupe county in schertz. my grandparents live there



    dont go to stone oak...





    anywhere north of downtown..not so much east

    and not south



    just north

    lol

    this prolly doesnt help you
    How about the corner of Utopia and Fantasy Land? Come on,grow up. Any city you move to has crime in it. No matter where you go,every culture has good and bad.

    Oh,and in case no one ever said it, Welcome to San Antonio!Im 27 and moving to San Antonio. Where is the best and safest place to live to still meet people %26amp; have fun?
    if you want to be safe and have fun, i would say anywhere on the north west side of town. there is nice dinner spots, sport bars, clubs and more. this side of town will more then likely be most convenient to you.
    The northeast side is great it also has lots of stores and theatres near by plus if you have kids schools are great.

    How do web sites' advertisements know where you live?

    For example I go to a random site that I am not registered on and that technically should not know anything about me. The advertisements on the sides say "meet singles in _____ (the town where I live)" It is very creepy. How does the site know where I live? And how can I fix it that it doesn't know?How do web sites' advertisements know where you live?
    When your computer makes a request to a website, it has to include information that lets the site send the information back to your computer.



    That information can identify roughly where you are. The accuracy is about 95% and the precision is about city level.



    It isn't anything to worry about, and the only way you can stop it is to have your requests come from a computer that is in a different location to you (e.g. using a proxy server). It really isn't worth the effort.
    It really means nothing. They see your IP address and its' registered location. This means nothing, as it actually is seeing the owner's location, which is your ISP. If they are based in your town that is where it would say. My IP is always recognised as being 25 miles from where I actually live, as that is the ISP location. Quite often not very helpful, as when looking for maps it guesses my starting point as that location.How do web sites' advertisements know where you live?
    When you access a website you download data from them. They can track where the data is going, if not all the way to your home, at least up to your internet service provider (which shows what town yur in). Can't fix that, thats how the internet works.



    Maybe using a proxy server could throw them off and make them ping a different city. Try using a proxy server if yur worried.
    Probably your IP (Internet Protocol) Address which are numbers identifying your internet service / modem. The structure of an IP address is xxx.xxx.xxx.xxx. People can tell from your IP address what country you live in or nearest capital city (I think).How do web sites' advertisements know where you live?
    Every computer has it own IP address which knows your location then websites can access your IP address and see where you live and as if by magic there is a woman in your town waiting for you!



    Hope this helps
    they are based on the IP Address that you internet provider assigned to you... you can (maybe) avoid it by using some proxy servers...
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  • Weird to talk about marriage and children when first meeting?

    It seems like our society is not interested in marriage at all, we have both men and women waiting to walk down the aisle until their late 30's. With that said what is your interpretation of 20 year olds who discussed living together, marriage, and children when they first meet ? Extremely romantic, down right lame or something else?Weird to talk about marriage and children when first meeting?
    No way. If you know what you want why should you beat around the bush... People have sex on the first date and that seems totally normal to most of our society. Why should marriage and kid talk be weird? There should be more talking and less physical activity on the first date.
    I like that idea... i wish more ppl would do that. When i first meet a guy, these concens come into my mind first and they stay there until they're discussed. But they're usually not discussed until much later. You're right that it's considered weird and not normal. The person that brings it up is seen as being psycho or over eager, desperate, etc. So to not make ourselves seem this way, we wait to discuss it. But imo, it's a huge waste of time.Weird to talk about marriage and children when first meeting?
    WEIRD? PSHYCO is more like the word! RUN!
    Depends

    Was it a heavy conversation or chit chat?

    A little lame maybe, but some people want to do things right from the startWeird to talk about marriage and children when first meeting?
    I think it means that you are very attracted to each other, but realize that it is important to know how each other feels about the important issues. The more you can talk about and get a feel for what the other person really expects from a life commitment, the better you will deal with what happens.

    If you want 6 kids and he is anti children, then it won't work!
    20 year olds have no business be married and having children... you aren't mature enough and aren't even old enough to be finished with college...
    i dont care how old someone is, if you talk about marriage on the first date...even second its very odd and makes you look desperate lol. I find it wonderful that woman now dont feel like they need a man to take care of them and can live there own life first before they marry later in life...nothing wrong with it. I think alot of women back in the day were raised to believe the man supports the wife, while the wife stays home and takes care of the home. well thats silly, marriage is equal and men and woman share responsibilities. women dont need a man to take care of then just like men dont need a woman to clean up after them.
    No ,these things are important to know!
    Men who are pushy and have a poor sense of the appropriate have a tendancy to turn out to be controllers. So, something else. A little scary.



    We have conventions in our society for a reason. It's not romantic to rush into marriage. It's sad and shows a lack of judgment.



    I taught my daughters to wait. Get an education, travel, achieve professionally and wait. Have something to offer when you marry. Don't do it out of desperation because that's all that's available to you.



    My 26 yo is waiting. That shows judgment.

    I live in the US and love my country, but is our government corrupt or entrenched by propaganda?

    I see Barry has kept his promises, but not to all Americans, Republicans and Democrats are secretly working/meeting together, and everyone is wasting our money. What should I expect to see a couple of years down this road?I live in the US and love my country, but is our government corrupt or entrenched by propaganda?
    all I know is that the public never gets to know everything that happens behind the scenes. So while we think we know what's going on, and provide answers as to how to solve the problems government is having, we might not be addressing the right situations.



    With every election comes change. All you can expect is change.

    If you are not a US born, what were the prerequisites you had to meet in order to come and live in US legally?

    I am working on an immigration project for a college debate. I am interested on learning what are the requirements people have to meet in order to come to US legally. For example; where I come from, people who want to come to US have to have big money in the bank, properties, some type of business etc. Broke people do not get US visas where I come from. Please share your experience in this subject. Thanks.If you are not a US born, what were the prerequisites you had to meet in order to come and live in US legally?
    Well immigration laws are extremely tight now. If you wanted to come to this country legally, you need to put in how much you make, if you were to get a job here (also known as a "worker's visa"), if you were to need government aid, all your permanent records, your properties and how much they are worth, and so on and so forth.



    My buddy in Brazil wants to come to America and can't get in and she makes more than $90,000 a year. She's even been here before, too but they keep denying her. Its getting harder for good, hard-working, honest immigrants to come here. Its a shame.If you are not a US born, what were the prerequisites you had to meet in order to come and live in US legally?
    Well, my sons and I immigrated from New Zealand through the immediate family category, my having been married to my US husband for (at that time) 9 years. As such, we didn't need to have a set amount of money or other financial/educational requirements, although we did own a home and I had a good job.



    My husband, who sponsored me, did have to prove that his income was high enough to support us. The legal requirement is 125% above the poverty level for the household size, which for us was 4 people.



    All three of us had to have police and FBI checks done to prove we were of good moral character and we had to have an extensive medical to ensure that we were fit and healthy and had no communicable diseases.



    And of course, there are the requirements of proving a bona fide relationship etc etc - not really an issue for me, as due to the length of our marriage, we weren't asked to provide any extra evidence or asked any questions regarding it.If you are not a US born, what were the prerequisites you had to meet in order to come and live in US legally?
    Get either immigrant (green card) or non immigrant visas. Also, if you are wealth you can get green card through Investor Employment Based.



    http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/m鈥?/a>



    http://travel.state.gov/visa/visa_1750.h鈥?/a>

    Question for ppl expert in new relationship of any kind an/or meeting ppl online?

    what if u meet someone of the opposite sex online like it chatrooms, online games, etc...not on purpose but by chance and start liking each othe more and more everyday. u live thousand miles away, what would u do next?Question for ppl expert in new relationship of any kind an/or meeting ppl online?
    I would be very wary about meeting anyone online unless you have a friend who can vouch for them, even if they do seem to nice and funny. if you live thousands of miles away and have never met think if it is really worth even trying to get to know them as nothing may happen. but at the end of the day, you've met someone online.. you havent really got a clue of who they are... so be cautious about what you do and what you reveal.



    I just want you to be safe, however wise you are

    Ollie.

    In what city should I move if Im interested in meeting a latin woman?

    I'm looking for a woman to hopefully live with and have a family in the future. I'm very attracted to latin women. Any suggestions?In what city should I move if Im interested in meeting a latin woman?
    um...wow. I'll answer just for the two points

    New York:

    Washington Heights aka The Heights

    Bronx



    Florida:

    Miami



    Texas:

    Austin

    Houston



    Other places. We're taking over America! next stop is Canada!In what city should I move if Im interested in meeting a latin woman?
    Well my friend your not the only one. ^^



    I don't know which cities but there are states that may have large Hispanic populations. California, Nevada, Arizona, Texas, Florida, New York, and etc.In what city should I move if Im interested in meeting a latin woman?
    Rio de Janeiro

    Tijuana

    Panama City

    San Jose

    Santo Domingo
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  • If you live in Perth WA, where is a good place to meet single guys around 35ish?

    I am not talking about any singles bars or speed dating. I'm just wondering where some good spots are to go if you want to meet nice guys!If you live in Perth WA, where is a good place to meet single guys around 35ish?
    try a pub or the supermarket lol. sorry its been a while since ive been to perth, cant think of anything offhand.. try fremantle or the beach or something, im not sure.If you live in Perth WA, where is a good place to meet single guys around 35ish?
    try a sports barIf you live in Perth WA, where is a good place to meet single guys around 35ish?
    night clubs, Beach's

    Which cities or towns in the northeast are amongst the best places to live and buy a home?

    I'm from NYC, I just moved back here from Los Angeles because I want to be closer to my family. Still, I don't want to stay in NYC. (I do love my home, but it's not cost effective for me to remain a resident) I just want to live close by. Any ideas on where I can find some affordable real estate (ie: 50 - 150,000 range) in other cities or towns nearby --maybe like two to three hours away? I'm looking for decent, well-rounded places that offer a multitude of options. Smaller towns are ok, but they shouldn't be microscopic. I'm still young (in my lae 20's) so there would have to be an 20 - 30's crowd, some sort of nightlife or places to meet people.Which cities or towns in the northeast are amongst the best places to live and buy a home?
    As a native from LA now living in the NYC metro area also in my late 20's, I understand where you're coming from. Real estate here is on par with So Cal, but its the property taxes that really makes things so unaffordable. This is why my boyfriend and I have been looking in Albany as a potential for buying. You can pick up a house for as low as $35k (obviously not in the greatest area) and can find some nice properties for $150k with taxes that won't force you to live on ramen noodles. The downside is trying to find employment there- its primarily govn't work and seems you have to "know" people to get your foot in the door. Nightlife there is pretty good and varied from what I've seen and experienced. My boyfriend went to SUNY Albany and has had good things to say about it. So there's my two cents! All the best in finding something that suits!
    Go back to LA, everything is exspensive hereWhich cities or towns in the northeast are amongst the best places to live and buy a home?
    Move to Long Island, NY. There are nice communties everywhere. Close to beaches and night life. In Nassau county you are 45 minutes to Manhattan by train.



    see link if you are buying a house
    Come back to the city of Angels we miss you, there are affordable housing all around here, in Long Beach and other cities.Which cities or towns in the northeast are amongst the best places to live and buy a home?
    Check out the City of Newburgh, NY. A few reasons.



    A little over an hour from Grand Central from Beacon train station.



    Great waterfont - hot - nightlife.



    City is undergoing revitalization and in some historic areas the Feds are giving a motgage with 1% down and low interest rates for home ownership. The houses are late 1800's brick to earlier 1920's.



    The waterfront is affluent (mostly white) while the city is minority with some areas being not so sweet.



    Can still get a home for uner $200K.



    Best

    Peter

    How would I find an acting coach and agent from where I live?

    I live in Richmond, VA and the acting coaches and agents are not so good. Would it be possible to have an agent in NYC and just go up there once a month to meet with them? I have been told I need to go professional but I need to do it now...and I'm not sure how to find an agent thats somewhat nearby.How would I find an acting coach and agent from where I live?
    you need to be where the acting opportunities are and get an agent near the work and near you.

    no agent is going to take you if you can only do interviews once a month. you need to be in travel

    distance of the things your agent will be sending you on. your not going to find any

    commercial acting work in virginia, it's not done there. you need to go to NYC or LA.

    How do citizens of Mexico live and work in the US?

    I'm simply curious, because I've been meeting a lot of Mexican people and learning that their not US citizens but Mexican citizens. I know someone that's a citizen of both countries.How do citizens of Mexico live and work in the US?
    they pick fruits, or work under the table, constructions, or landscaping.How do citizens of Mexico live and work in the US?
    By having a work permit issued by INS.How do citizens of Mexico live and work in the US?
    they're mostly illegal. they work somewhere that pays them under the table or they get a photo id and make up a fake ssn when they apply for a job. a lot of states have laws that make it easy for illegals to get drivers' licenses and don't allow the police to ask about their immigration status. most states also have lax laws regarding public schools, so the school district can't inquire about the students legal status, they just have to teach anyone that walks through the door.
    they usually do the jobs americans don't want

    What is the standard visitation in Texas for parents who live 9 hours away?

    does anyone know what the standard visitation in texas is for parenst who live 536 miles apart? Is it still the 1st, 3rd, and 5th weekend? It is not possible for a parent with a job to meet half way every other weekend at that distance at 6 pm, nor is it reasonable to expect a child to do that. Has anyone experienced this or do you know where to find the info? we just want to work it out as reasonably as possible.What is the standard visitation in Texas for parents who live 9 hours away?
    I do not know the law in Texas, and I am not a lawyer, but as a parent who has dealt with a similar situation in Ohio in the past, I can offer my personal opinion.



    "Standard" visitation is what the court orders when the parties have not come to a reasonable understanding that is in the best interest of the child.



    You do not say how old this child is, nor whether both parents work the "standard" American work week of M-F 9-5 or some other schedule



    My best advice is to be very flexible. If there is a long weekend or school break, let the non-custodial parent take the child for all or most of it.



    Although my ex husband and I only lived 90 miles apart, we resolved that whichever parent had plans that would be most fun for our son would have him. That said, if his dad's camping trip happened to fall on "my" weekend, he went with his dad. If I was going to a ball game on "his" weekend, our son stayed with me.



    Court ordered visitation is a guideline. The custodial parent must ALLOW at LEAST that much time with the non-custodial parent, but as long as the two parents come to an alternate agreement, there is no trouble with the court.



    That said, if for some reason the parents can decide WHO should have the child for a particular weekend, then the court order would govern.
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  • When I transfer to GATech, should I live on or off campus?

    I am planning on transferring from GCSU to GATech... I am curious about how I should go about doing this. I don't know any one who goes there and don't know any one who lives in Atlanta. Would you recommend I live on Campus to get to know people, or are there any good places to meet people beside that.When I transfer to GATech, should I live on or off campus?
    You should absolutely try living on campus first.



    It is infinitely easier to make friends. You have instant access to campus amenities and events without having to get in a car or hop on a bus and go. Even if you live off-campus a short distance away, the time spent back and forth gets really old, very fast (trust me on this one! ;) )



    Plus, living off campus means you need to not only juggle your college life but also things like making yourself meals, furnishing an apartment, renter's insurance, and all the other stuff that goes with it.



    Try living on campus. There are all sorts of housing options (not just an 8 x 8 room). Hop on the GATech website and see if they have any unusual options that fit you.



    It's just easier to live on campus, easier to connect with others, easier to get to the library and study, and many students really enjoy it!

    Is there a weightloss website foucused on meeting others?

    I'm looking for a weightloss website that can give you tips on eating, and also that can help you easily find others who live in your area who are also trying to lose weight.Is there a weightloss website foucused on meeting others?
    You should join a weightloss forum website, I go on bodybuilding.com but I think you would probably find http://weight-loss.fitness.com better. Go and join up, you can probably post pictures and track your progress, talk to other people about what works and their results etc.Is there a weightloss website foucused on meeting others?
    I know a couple. There is FitDay and BuddySlim. I use them both.

    One Life to Live: When do James and Ford meet for the first time?

    Is it when James is in the hospital?One Life to Live: When do James and Ford meet for the first time?
    For the first time? When James was born. They grew up together until Ford left home. If you mean in Llanview, then I think Halo Mom is right- I think James got to town around the time that Ford had been attacked and he went to his hospital room to see him.One Life to Live: When do James and Ford meet for the first time?
    When Eli hit Ford over the head and he was knock out

    I believe James went into ford room, ford was not awake

    That is where he took Star and Hope

    How can I meet the WWE SUPERSTARS when i go to a live event without backstage passes?

    Like how would i meet them in person take, pictures with them and get autographs! PLEASE AND THANKYOUHow can I meet the WWE SUPERSTARS when i go to a live event without backstage passes?
    after the show or may be autograph sighning other than that i dont know
    You can always go to the dressing room, knock the door and ask for autographs, meet them etc. Or maybe you can be audacious and try what a fan did in the 2/6/08 edition of Monday Night RAW when a fan ran into the ring during the main event (John Cena vs Jeff Hardy) and then you can see them from a very close distance, albeit you have to wrestle with the stewards and security guards in the ring. hahaHow can I meet the WWE SUPERSTARS when i go to a live event without backstage passes?
    Pre or post show. I've found a place where they constantly eat after the show in NC, and family members and I have went, gotten pictures and autographs. Believe it or not, it was Hooters. We spoted Cryme Time, Rated RKO, and a few others.



    My advice is look for the nearest eatery/restaurant, or better yet, hang out after the show and see if you spot any leaving. I've heard they're very cordual before and after shows, but I've never experienced it myself and I've been to around 5 or 6 events in my lifetime.
    I have personally bought the Ultimate Backstage Book like other people have suggested on Yahoo Answers and it really works! I met the Jonas Brothers using the methods in the book. I want to thank them for letting me in on this info. It Rocks!



    I would have paid a thousand dollars for those passes but the book was only 20 bucks and showed me exactly how to get backstage passes and free concert tickets. I had a great time at the concert and even got a few phone numbers from the group.



    I was not going to share this information but I already got backstage and met my favorite group. I also want to thank Ed since he personally helped me get passes. I highly recommend this book. You can check out their site if you are interested in getting the book at http://www.igotbackstagepasses.com/. Thanks to this book, I will never have to buy a concert ticket again.



    Later,

    JBHow can I meet the WWE SUPERSTARS when i go to a live event without backstage passes?
    Before and after a show for sure, but be very early if you want to catch them before, at least 3 hours early. We met Cena, Mickey James, Jeff Hardy, and Umaga before a house show in Indiana, we where there about 3 hours early and still had hundreds of people there before us.
    just wait for them before and after the show in the parking lot, ive read alot of fan reports that say they meet wrestlers in the parking lot so i guess the parking lot is the place to be
    After the show I think



    idk



    srry
    you get to the show early and stay real late

    How can all these minorities & immigrants afford to live in CA, when an upstanding white man can't?

    If an upstanding, law-abiding white man who makes more financially on an individual basis cannot afford to live in CA, how do the minorities, immigrants, gays, and other outcasts make ends meet in CA?How can all these minorities %26amp; immigrants afford to live in CA, when an upstanding white man can't?
    Gays usually make darn good money so don't group them with the others. Immigrants(Mexicans) legal or illegal, live in housing either provided by farm companies such as wineries or in government housing. They also get houses for low income too. But the main thing is Mexicans live together in large groups of extended family members. I can afford to live here because I was born here and started off paying high prices for everything. I call it being used to living on a tight budget. But it is very hard for anyone to come here from another state, buy a home and a car and get a high paying job.
    Excellent question and understanding. Between the underground communist party here and the Mexican government they are well funded. The goal of the communist has been to undermine American stability from within. Ever wonder how ACORN could survive and how we just found out about it. Acorn has been around for decades working silently. Groups like this are being funded by the government as the right is too gun shy to fight it. But these type organizations are here. Lenin stated to destroy the middle class '[grind them between inflation and taxation' two things that they are pushing now.



    It is even more apparent when yo see the gubment shutting down the border fence in Arizona. We were told by the media and the administration that the 'virtual fence was not working and cost billions.

    Actually anyone knows a fence with a camera is not any good if the border agents are told not to go up to the person, only arrest if the person comes to them.



    The border fence worked. You may be able to find this unless the information has been removed, which we know our administration stops at nothing, but Sheriff BeBeu of Pinal County Arizona and his task force stated that the double layer wire fence worked. It cut the number of invaders from 130,000 to 10.000 and that his task force including some National Guard caught 97% of them. Obviously this is unacceptable to Obama and the rest.



    So what is going on is something that has been going on for 50 years, just like the dumbing down of our government by putting lower sub standard people in positions. is there any other country or business in the word that promotes the worst, people who cannot do the job o0r even pass a test into supervisory positions? No not even Kenyan, but hey we do.



    It's not to late mainly the worse have been promoted in the government and fed and state and that can be saved by promoting by merit and not lies. But this is a plan that has been going on for a long time even before aa or eeoc to destroy the country. *** y o can tell by our government and the idiots in it that it is working. Ha ha could you see Russia promoting some idiot over better qualified applicants, cannot other than someone in the 'party' making them do it like a brother in law deal. But in the real world like Europe they don't.



    they are funded why would an organization like the Black Panthers come out of the wood work and nothing be done. Granted holder is part of eeoc and aa but this goes much further.How can all these minorities %26amp; immigrants afford to live in CA, when an upstanding white man can't?
    I guess that upstanding law abiding white man is doing something wrong huh. Ask someone to show you how it's done.
    Welfare, subsidized housing, living 20 to a roomHow can all these minorities %26amp; immigrants afford to live in CA, when an upstanding white man can't?
    Government hand outs which is why their state is bankrupt.
    welfare and hand outs.
    Welfare, low housing asst.. free money for college even tho my son who was born in this country has to pay his own way.. makes me sick
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  • Where is the best area (in the US) for a 18-22 year old to live and meet people close to their age?

    big cities...smaller cities....or small towns. Im open to anything.Where is the best area (in the US) for a 18-22 year old to live and meet people close to their age?
    I would have to say Dallas. I suppose I'm partially biased because I live there. ;-) There is some research below that does say it's a good place to head to if you are looking to get a head in your professional career just out of college or starting out, some others are Houston, Minneapolis, Boston, New York, and Austin.



    As far as the social scene Austin makes the list again as number 1 so if you're looking for a great social life and career, that might be the place to go. The Forbes list places San Francisco as number 1 for dating, along with LA, Chicago, Dallas, Seattle, San Diego and Philadelphia to name a few. This list is not much different, from their best places for college grads and young professional "to live" lists.



    Check out all my source links for top cities for finding jobs for recent grads as well as the best cities for young singles to date and socialize. Good luck and best wishes to you! ~J~

    Where is the best area (in the US) for a 18-22 year old to live and meet people close to their age?
    There is no answer to that question. Meeting people is a social skill, and it doesn't matter what size city or town you live in.

    Is it possible to live a celibate life?

    Roman Catholic priests consecrate their whole entire life to God and live a celibate life. I've once thought about becoming a priest, but I find it to be a bit scary because I'm afraid that one day I'll meet and fall in love with a woman. Is living a celibate life really possible?Is it possible to live a celibate life?
    yes, a celibate life is very possible if you are tasting something far greater and more sweeter than sex or any worldly pleasures. And that is unconditional pure love and devotion for God.



    Serving and pleasing the Supreme Lord enthusiastically and spontaneously out of unconditional and undivided love and devotion not only fills up the emptiness at the innermost core of the soul, mind and heart of a person which is as wide and as deep as the Grand Canyon with the sweet nectar of spiritual peace and happiness until it overflows, but also, only love and devotion for God can extinguished the wild and blazing fire of desire for pleasure, satisfaction, contentment and fulfillment.



    While pleasure and happiness in this world derived from sexual or sensual gratification is only temporary and flickering and will only lead to frustration, misery and suffering.



    With such wonderful feelings and experience derived from loving God, you want to share and to spread such great blessing to anyone and everyone out of love and compassion for others.



    In the Roman Catholic faith, the one who best exemplified this condition is St. Francis of Assisi.
    It would seem to me be much easier if you were in a monastery away from women. But as a priest, you would surely occassionally come into contact with attractive women. So I would think that would be difficult for a guy with a normal sex drive. Although there are some people who just have low sex drives. There are plenty of Catholic priests out there who have left for other denominations because they wanted to get married but still wanted to be involved in the ministry.



    I see the whole celibacy thing as something that'll eventually go away. I don't know exactly when but I can't imagine that'll still be the rule for Catholic priests in a hundred years.



    Also, just listen to yourself for a second, your "afraid" that someday you'll fall in love with a woman? Dude, what kind of life is that. To have be afraid of that.Is it possible to live a celibate life?
    There is nothing stated in the holy writings that any man who desires a position of oversight in the congregation are not to marry so I don't know where in the world Roman Catholics got that idea. I they're basing that doctrine of the fact that St. Paul was not married, then they sadly mistaken because he was not married based on doctrine but on choice. He personally choose not to marry because he was solely focused on the spreading the word. Other apostles were married such as St. Peter (Simon)- Mark 1:29,30; 1 Corinthians 9:5



    As far as living a celibate life, you absolutely can do so but if you are to remain that way , you have to be careful about what you watch and what you listen to that have sexual content. Otherwise you won't last a week! Please do not minimize this especially since you're trying to be a man of God.



    If you meet a nice women whom you feel you can spend the rest of your life with, you better go for it, or lost buddy:-)
    I am living one - but then I'm asexual, so I don't feel physical/sexual/romantic attraction to men or women.



    If it's not natural for you to be celibate, then I wouldn't recommend it. That life should be for only the ones who can handle it without it going against their true nature too much.Is it possible to live a celibate life?
    i think it's possible in temporary terms. I and my friends have, at different points in our lives, been "celibate" for various reasons, but we are sexual beings by nature and you'll only be depriving yourself, I think it's unhealthy for a person to go their entire life with out ever having sex.
    You should not be afraid to fall in love dear, with a woman or a man for that matter.

    If you give a try to celibate life, be sure to masturbate at least once per day. This is necessary for your prostate health. It will also relieve your sexual tension, preventing you from doing some of the nasty things priests tend to do with altar boys...
    Yes, just really, really hard. But our use of these forces our bodies offer is what keeps them alive and at the forefront of our minds. It may seem harsh at first, but eventually habit would smooth the rough edges of this lifestyle and eventually you could live in denial of your own sexual desires.
    I think being celibate is a good way to be. That way no one can break your heart or mess with your head. It's unlikely God will do that.

    Its simple to do. Just avoid the opposite sex as much as possible. And don't make yourself too attractive to them. Maybe grow a beard, stop wearing aftershave, put on a few pounds, etc. I expect most women will respect that you are a priest and keep their distance.

    Good luck.
    well, i don't know where to begin...

    Not all priests are celibate... sorry to burst your bubble. Only a very few are chosen to live a celibate life... it is written in the bible... if you are on fire, (in other words, horny i guess...) then get married...

    Sounds to me like you are a healthy young man who notices women...

    Sad to say... but i know of at least 3 priests who had "girlfriends" and one in particular used to flirt with me... so i don't think being celibate is natural for a human being....
    Priests are not celibate they just pretend, that's o.k I don't blame them. Don't worry if you become a priest it just means you can't get married, you are allowed to leave the preisthood if it doesn't work so give it a try if you feel like it
    Lol!



    Theoretically, it's possible. I remember reading about a woman who lived to 105 and was apparently completely celibate the entire time. But it would suck, that's for sure...
    Quite frankly only certain personality types are suited for this undertaking. And I'm certainly not one of those types.
    only by the grace of God..if its not by the grace of God then no its not possible.









    God loves you...God bless
    Depends on the person I guess.



    But going without love and affection has got to be tough.
    people need people......remember that.
    not for pisces. I hate living alone. We are romantics. So just dont be a priest.
    Yes it's quite easy when you're older, like say fifty or more.



    But as a younger person NO it is not very possible.
    all things are possible with god!
    Yeah...I'm not sure even all priests are100% celibate.
    Not really....we are biologically programmed to pass on our DNA....if ya know what I mean.
    Yes living celibate is possible, but it is not required to be a pastor of a Church. Only Catholic priest do this which is totally un scriptural. God bless.

    What is the best way to meet people from Denmark in the surrounding area of which I live?

    I am married to a Dane for 23 years, lived in Denmark for 5 years, speak fluent Danish.What is the best way to meet people from Denmark in the surrounding area of which I live?
    Try enrolling in some evening classes, be active in an NGO or invite people from your work at home, for dinner. Danish people are not outgoing, so you need to make the first step. Being active in the Danish society earns you points, as it both shows you are interested in the country and in the people, and it is a good opportunity to speak to Danes in a more relaxed manner.
    Hi, join a forum where foreigners and Danes talk about Denmark and many other things.



    For example: http://www.foreignersindenmark.dk/forum/鈥?/a>



    There is often a meet up in different cities in Denmark.



    Another good way to meet people is to join a hobby you like and attend classes at AOF.



    Regards,

    PaulaWhat is the best way to meet people from Denmark in the surrounding area of which I live?
    I live in randers too...call me or email me and i'll send my number. I have a cleaning business and day spa here. Married to a dane to and been here 5 years.



    Maybe u can help me with my danish too.
    Post up an advert in your local newsagents and organise a Danish get-together.What is the best way to meet people from Denmark in the surrounding area of which I live?
    Try Craigslist or other advertising?

    How does one live life to the fullest?

    You could say that I had an epiphany after thinking about old people. I realized that they were once young too, and one day (I hope..) I'll be old too. Youth only lasts but so long. I'm sixteen years old, but I feel like my life is empty. I see other people with tons of friends and sometimes I feel worthless because for me it's quite hard to make friends (initial shyness when meeting people SUCKS). I want to feel alive. What can I do?How does one live life to the fullest?
    There are several quite good answers to your question and - yes, "live life to the fullest" is indeed an awful cliche", but also other expressions like: "Youth only lasts but so long" and "my life is empty" and "tons of friends" and "making friends" and "meeting people sucks" and "I want to feel alive". That you are using these cliches contains part of the answer: 'Cliches' tell that people are using a lot of phrases that represent common concepts as part of the world view of our society. There are given values that create a specific expectation and so people move within these narrow roads, trying to fulfill these 'cliches'. But these expectations are clashing with daily reality and so are causing a lot of disappointment and stress.

    So one can resume that living in a fake reality is not a good thing, but as this seems to be the only one that is available, so people cling on it and run for more of it.

    There is hardly any doubt or question about it and people prefer to suffer being disappointed and depressed, instead of questioning themselves, creating a frightening void.

    We are all complaining about our (fake) reality, but still ignorance is our most practised way to keep going. You will have an example of this, when you probably will ignore my answer. Right?

    In case that you continue reading, then there might come the question: "What can I do not to be trapped in cliches and expectations?"

    Good question, the answer is much less complicate than you might expect. What you can do? It is not so much 'doing', it is more your attitude that needs some attention and change. It is not so much the outside with people, happenings, conditions and situations, - it is more how you see the world and yourself: The image you are carrying with you and that you let see the world and yourself in a certain way. You are programmed and reacting to what comes to you in a specific way because of your background structure, that is not conscious to you. We are all slaves of a program that comes and is hold by our society and we are all joining the big game!

    Question: Then how can I get out of this?

    Excellent question! And our world would look quite different if more people would ask! And then do the only thing that could open the way to go beyond ones present stuck position and that is:

    *Relating* the best one can, out of ones personal capability, to the daily happenings and situations. That means being willing to confront what shows up, looking at it in the most open way possible and then *responding* out of ones possibilities. In this ones *awareness* is involved and one will need to take self responsibility. Then one will be able to observe without being 'sucked' into situations. One will be able to observe and so being aware of ones reactions and then one will be able to decide how one wants to respond with an action... This is an effective way to go beyond ones established narrow personality. New horizons will open up and one will be able to see the world and oneself in a new *light*.

    A good way to start ones walk is to ask questions. That's what you have done, so continue with it and be critical about answers you receive from the outside. You have the *truth* already within yourself, so you only need to compare it with what comes to you...

    Following what I have described has not an instant result, it is a long process that will last your whole life and with this you will live your life indeed to the fullest. Then your life is a learning, growing and healing process and this for sure will *fulfill* you!

    BeiYin
    Moment after moment: if every moment is lived to the fullest, then life is lived to the fullest.



    Every time, we make space for emptiness instead of a full moment, we miss to live to the fullest.

    This emptiness is not meditation or rest, or sleep: it is bragging, boasting, lying, stealing, taking credit for what we have not done, misleading other people, criticizing, gossiping, refraining from giving, keeping things for oneself instead of distributing and sharing, lacking respect etc. : this is emptiness, this is not living to the fullest.How does one live life to the fullest?
    Don't compare yourself to others, be strong, try your hardest, don't try to live life to the fullest, make life want to live you to the fullest.



    And, as always, with friends, quality comes far before quantity. The greatest of friends will become attached to you, even through shyness, I promise.
    Always remember no one is better or worse than you, and you are not better or worse than anyone else.



    If you want friends, push yourself to do things where you'll meet people. Make sure you live in a dorm for college, I didn't do that and I regretted it. It's the fastest way to make good friends.



    Join clubs, go on trips, volunteer...



    And no one can live life to the fullest... all you can do is never regret anything and feel content with your life.How does one live life to the fullest?
    At the end of the day, you have to answer to the man in the mirror.

    Learn about self help and positive thinking. Make the most of any opportunity that passes you by. Do things that make you happy, take some risks and talk to your guardian angels, they are around you and they're waiting. The more you ask, the more they will help. Perhaps you have a relative that's passed, imagine they are there to help you and go for it.
    just live. it's simple, you want to laugh? laugh, you want to cry? cry. you want to have friends? have friends. you want to live life to the fullest? go do something you consider living life to the fullest... in your opinion. Hope this helps!
    by living their life to the fullest

    the best they know how?
    Find an old person and ask them,



    "If you knew then what you know now, what would you do differently to live life to the fullest?"



    "What do you know for sure?"
    How does one live life to the fullest?



    Answer: Less time on the internet.
    It has it's rough spots...and please drop that from your vocabulary. "live life to the fullest" is an awful cliche.
    Do more activities, find a hobby, get a new job, and meet some new people that way...
    Start looking in your mirror, there you will meet a winner.with yet to be realized possibilities
    Concentrate on doing well in school. Friends will come along the road. Do not measure yourself against the rest.
    life is very long but we living happy and more fun,sad any way
    ...doing what one enjoys one day at a time...
    You're 16. Life is supposed to be lonely, in despair, and suck. Truly, that's just how it is. Even the kids that have tons of friends are feeling the same way at times.



    I had a horrid high school life. It got better when I went to college and was able to pick my major. Then, I was surrounded with people I had more things in common with. In college, you're more likely to be put in study groups or paired up---and in situations where meeting people (even if you're shy) will be easier. Whether you go to a JR college for a year or go off, this is pretty true.



    "Youth" is better as you get older. I'm 35 and I feel more fulfilled and "youthful" than I ever had. It's because I'm at a point in my life where things don't bother me so much and I've found my groove in life.



    Seriously, just get through the next two years and you'll have a great time once you hit college. If it's just horrible right now, then try joining an out of school group through volunteering or something.

    Life can change so fast once you get through high school. When I was 16, I sat, shy, in the corner alone on the floor eating lunch every day. I had a retainer, bad perm, huge glasses, etc. Fast forward three years and I'm in Chicago on TV and working as a model and invited to parties.



    You'll be just fine.

    Is it acceptable to be someone you're not when meeting a stranger?

    Like giving a fake name/age/phone number/where you live. Things like that? Do you think that is acceptable when meeting a complete stranger, on person or online?

    I believe it is because there is so much information someone can find out just by you're name, and since they are a stranger they could also very well be a murder/stalker/pedophile etc.Is it acceptable to be someone you're not when meeting a stranger?
    There are some people so creepy I wouldn't tell them what time it was. Clearly personal information is something you don't give to just anybody. If they won't take no for an answer, then by all means give them incorrect information. You don't owe them a damn thing.
    OK Why on earth would someone likely be a murder/stalker pedophile? At what time in this f'ed up world did having one single name, first and last, dissapear? First last names went, and you can't even expect to get one from a human being, now you're going to lie to someone, like a beginner sociopath, because of the off chance they may have bodies hidden in their basement?



    Just give true name, true age - you don't ever have to give phone numbers or addresses unless you want to. But don't lie about it. (if someone's hitting on you, you can give a fake phone)



    It's more weird to look someone in the face and light of day and say "i'm thirteen" when you're nineteen and "my name's Benjamin Braddock" rather than you honest given name.Is it acceptable to be someone you're not when meeting a stranger?
    Sure, of course it is. Unless you are pretending to be a totally different person in order to gain something, it shouldn't matter what you call yourself.
    If it is entertaining and positive experience for you than I would say go for it. It also sounds like it might help develop creativity. As long as your not pretending to be a doctor or someone of authority!!Is it acceptable to be someone you're not when meeting a stranger?
    Well girls did that to me, all the time. even my one my freinds did that to me, when we were young. Perfectly normal to mistrust people the first time around
    Well I am sure you answered your own question.!
    yes as long as its not a coworker or someone you ha ve to deal with in the future.
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  • Meeting point for my long distance relationship?

    my boyfriend lives in spain, i live in canada. the next time i'll be able to go to spain will be in june. we don't want to wait that long but it's not practical for me to go there for so little time any earlier than june... i was thinking an all inclusive vacation where we could meet and spend time with eachother for the week? how will i go abouts doing this?Meeting point for my long distance relationship?
    You may go to Istanbul. There are many beautiful places to visit in Istanbul.



    You may watch videos and find useful info about Istanbul at http://magnificentturkey.weebly.com/ista鈥?/a>Meeting point for my long distance relationship?
    las veagsMeeting point for my long distance relationship?
    1) Get a map that shows both Canada and Spain. There are no places that are half way between the two. One of you will have to fly farther than the other - no way around it. So:

    2) Look for places that may be easy to get to, like Bermuda, but where you go is totally up to you.

    3) Once the place is decided, use a travel site to look at airfare costs - you can look at fares for both you and him. Have an upper limit in mind. Look at various dates and times during the day.

    4) Once a place and dates are settled, then you can buy tickets for you, and he can buy them for himself, or one of you can buy both tickets. Doesn't matter who pays for them, as long as the traveler's name and information is correct.

    5) It would be nice if the arrival times at the destination are similar, but it is not a show stopper if they are not. Just work out the arrival and departure times so that they are not unreasonably different - like days apart.



    Before you actually buy the tickets, MAKE SURE that you have the right dates, times, departure cities and flight numbers for each of you. You don't want to make a mistake and have his tickets booked for the wrong week. It is easy to make mistakes - people do it all the time, so take extra care to check the dates on a calendar.



    If you and he can decide on a place and dates, then you could always go to a travel agent and have them do the flight booking.

    How can I find perfect place to live in?

    I live in London a year and half. But, I already moved house four times myself.

    I always having problem in my residences such as flat-mate, house condition, land owner etc...



    I looking for house carefully. Also, I do viewing and I meet flat mate before I move in.



    I really need to find comfortable place to live in.

    I think I am too clean and I really too hating lazy people.

    How can I find?How can I find perfect place to live in?
    I am going to let you in on a little secret. There is no perfect place to live. You need to develop a bit of tolerance for somethings.



    There is one other thing to think about. If you did find the perfect place to rent, you may find that the landlord is looking for the perfect tenant

    What is up with those ads that know where I live?

    I see ads that say something like meet interesting singles in (the city that I live in). How do they do that? As a web designer, I am interesting in learning how to acquire the general area of the visitor, just out of curiosity.



    I'm guessing it has something to do with IP address, but I'm not sure.What is up with those ads that know where I live?
    They use your IP to pinpoint your location. A PHP script can be used to do this.



    Check out the source code of this website:



    http://software77.net/cgi-bin/ip-country鈥?/a>What is up with those ads that know where I live?
    Cool that's neat.

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    What are some good meeting activities for Junior Girl Scouts?

    I am a second year leader looking for ideas for my girls. The age range is mostly fifth and sixth graders. I would also take any weekend activity ideas. I live in the Richmond, Virginia area. Thanks!What are some good meeting activities for Junior Girl Scouts?
    how about...? a trip to a local theme park? or a pool party? they'd love that!

    What Percentage Of Americans Live In Extreme Poverty?

    According to the World Bank this is the the definition of extreme poverty



    Is the most severe state of poverty. Many cannot meet basic needs for food, water, shelter, sanitation, and health care. To determine the affected population, the World Bank defines extreme poverty as living on less than USD $1.25 per day (adjusted for PPP). The World Bank estimates that 1.4 billion people currently live under these conditions.



    Using the World Bank's definition of extreme poverty, what percentage of Americans would qualify as living under extreme poverty ?What Percentage Of Americans Live In Extreme Poverty?
    People in America that fit that billing do live in the KY and W.VA area. They still use out houses and wells to get drinking water, etc....My pastor was telling my church of such people just a few years ago. This is just one reason I call Obama and the DNC a bunch of pathological liars because the very people they claim they will help, they never do. They never have had any intentions of doing so from the beginning. This is why the liberal media never makes reference to these people so they never expose their god for who he really is.
    That's a good one. I would venture a guess as 1%-2%. We still have them in this region, but the communities usually build them houses as quickly as they can, they're often elderly who've just escaped the community's attention through the years. The population here is very spread out so only a fraction of our residents have close neighbors.



    Most live in structures that were built long before 1940. They don't have indoor plumbing, poor insulation, and dangerous living conditions. All are currently in the situation of deciding between food or utilities. It's horrible.Social Security does not take care of their needs. A family friend makes a whopping $375. A lot of them were mothers whose husbands left them to raise the kids. They raised the kids, the kids moved off, and they have no working history to draw from. Or, the kids are deceased.



    I'd say there are similar circumstances in rural locations nationwide.What Percentage Of Americans Live In Extreme Poverty?
    Hey kiddo, since food/water/shelter/sanitation/health care have a higher cost in this country, the $1.25 thing needs to be increased to the cover the costs of these things in THIS COUNTRY.



    As far as an actual statistical number, don't know. We don't even have the true number of unemployed in this country, because once you stop collecting unemployment benefits (or if you are terminated and can't collect them), you are not considered in the unemployed statistic. So the unemployment rate drops when people can no longer collect unemployment, NOT when they get a job.
    Everybody who is on welfare. They receive about 476 a month. Divide that by $/day and ask yourself if they are really making it. Try to pay for housing, transportation, food and insurance Medical or auto with that along with utilities. This all in the US where life is very expensive. There is a lot of homeless in the US but they are mostly ignored. It is all very relative to where you live.
    @andy: I am sorry to tell you, you are in complete denial about your fellow Americans.

    Those who believe differently are in the same place as andy.What Percentage Of Americans Live In Extreme Poverty?
    The US definition of "extreme poverty" is a family living on less than half the poverty line, or about $10,000/year for a family of four. That's about $6.50 a day per person.



    The Catholic Campaign for Human Development states that there are currently 17 million Americans living in that kind of poverty.



    Appalling.
    I would say zero. Not even the panhandlers live on this little. With welfare and government aid to those in need, our poor are middle class at minimum every where else except Western Europe and a few other Nations.



    Even China is seeing their average hourly rate move around $5 USD per hour.
    I say probably 5% live in extreme Poverty, but 15 to 20 percent live below the Poverty Line.



    Some people are one paycheck from becoming homeless, others have to decide whether to pay the Electric Bill or purchase Groceries.
    The poorest Americans are among the richest people in the world. Most Americans have no clue what poor really is.
    With all its resources and assets, no one in America deserves this version of poverty.
    Less than one-half of one percent...and in most cases it's voluntary.
    All the lazy ones who can't get off their a55 to go get a job, even a simple labor one.
    There is no way of knowing if a person lives as you post in America it is by choice
    many more than most realize, it's not good for : votes, selling things, or national morale
    How about the legal immigrants?
    O%
    In terms of intelligence, nearly all conservatives live not just in poverty, but in severe debt.
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  • I met a boy through Facebook. We live close to each other but had never met previously Im nervous bout meeting?

    So yes, I met a boy through facebook. The dreaded internet dating. I started talking to him, because my friend and I had a contest going to see who could get the most numbers. He actually talked to me, and we started talking over facebook frequently. Then numbers were exchanged and we would text all the time. We never run out of things to talk about and talking is so easy.

    Of course I act a little bit different through the computer than I do in person. Im nervous about meeting him because, what if we can't find anything to talk about? What if I don't like him? What if he doesn't like me? What if it's weird?

    Does anyone have any advice?I met a boy through Facebook. We live close to each other but had never met previously Im nervous bout meeting?
    You guys don't have pics on FB? Anywhozits meet at starbucks or the movies (or any public place) if u r planning to go alone. Just see how it works out otherwise you'll always wonder what could have been...I met a boy through Facebook. We live close to each other but had never met previously Im nervous bout meeting?
    Don't be nervous, just be yourself. And make sure he's not a creep. And trust me, it is going to be weird at first but once you guys ease into an easy conversation everything will turn out fine.I met a boy through Facebook. We live close to each other but had never met previously Im nervous bout meeting?
    Nooo, some of my best friends were met through facebook!

    The meeting thing you might want to be cautious about though.

    Don't go alone, meet up with a fam. member or a best friend.

    What can I do to come,live and work in USA specially like a nurse ,to help the people when they are seek?

    As I said I want to to come and help the people in USA because in Albania did not gave me the oportunity to work in hospital or any healthcare instituston because the place were beasy and for another reason to be better economical.I live with my mother and my father too and my father gets 160dollars and I 200dollars my mother with out job when 1kg butter is5dollars,1kg cheese3dollars,1kg meet 5dollars,1liter gas for cooking and warming1dollar,1kw energy0.1dollar,1kg apple 0.5dollar,1kg orange 1dollar.Tell me what can I do with 360dollars in month will this things include and wearig things like clothes and shoes those are too expensive.What can I do to come,live and work in USA specially like a nurse ,to help the people when they are seek?
    you need a degree



    insurance does not allow anyone without a degree to work in hospitalsWhat can I do to come,live and work in USA specially like a nurse ,to help the people when they are seek?
    Ma mir te jetojsh aty ne Shqiperi sepse jeta ktu ne USA eshte veshtir per emigrantat e ri. Do ta humbish rrinin duke punuar edhe prap nuk do te arrish te gjithat qe I shpreson. Duhet na ta ndortojn Shqiperin e bukur sepse nese ikim te tere atehere vin Serbet ose Greeket edhe e na pushtoj shum leht.

    Should I live in an Apartment or a Residence Hall while studying abroad?

    I'm planning to study abroad in Amsterdam next fall. I'm trying to decide between two programs which are really similar but for one, I live in an apartment, and the other, I live in a residence hall with an RA. i was wondering which is better for me to have a great experience and meet new people? Which would you prefer? Price is not too different so that is not a problem.Thank you!Should I live in an Apartment or a Residence Hall while studying abroad?
    I will suggest you to have your own appartment .

    What are the best streets to live on in silverlake?

    I'm looking to move to LA for August to take classes at UCLA for 5 weeks (which meet only twice a week). I'm a young 20-something female, and my friends recommended silverlake. I'll probably rent a car for the month. What are the best areas in silverlake for housing? I'm from NYC and am used to busy streets and 24 hour convenient stores. I want to live in an area that is clean, safe, and fun. Please help.



    Thanks!What are the best streets to live on in silverlake?
    It's going to be tough to find a nice rental in Silverlake for 5 weeks. It's an older area, not too many large apartment buildings that do short term rentals, if any. Mostly, the nice, safer, areas of Silverlake are all houses, with a few condos, duplexes and triplexes. Any nice apartment is very likely to have a year lease, unless you can find a sublet. Silverlake has some rough neighborhoods, and sometimes you'll see ads that say Silverlake but they will actually be in a rougher area. Silverlake isn't all that safe even in the most expensive neighborhoods, typical for much of LA, but you just have to be careful and you'll be fine.



    Los Feliz, East Hollywood area right next to Los Feliz, are other options, but again, it's going to be difficult to find a short term lease.



    It might be a lot easier to find a temporary apartment in Westwood (Los Angeles 90024) near UCLA. While there isn't the empty summer apartment situation you find in other *college* towns, there is some. There is also summer housing at UCLA. The westside has more nightlife and businesses open later.



    UCLA Housing, click on Summer Housing if UCLA student, Public Housing if UCLA student or not: http://map.ais.ucla.edu/portal/site/UCLA鈥?/a>



    Craigslist has sublets, but you want to be very very careful to make sure you aren't scammed: http://losangeles.craigslist.org/



    There is temporary furnished housing (corporate apartments), but it generally costs about $130+ a night in the nicer areas, maybe $90 - $120 in the less nice areas.



    Safety info: http://www.lalife.com/ Click on Map, and Safety.



    Good luck!What are the best streets to live on in silverlake?
    The safer streets are the ones by the reservoir itself. Things are different out here. Places close up relatively early. Many streets in Silverlake are rather sedate. The only stores open 24 hours are the 7-11's, and they're not as convenient as you might think. They certainly aren't a short walk away. Better get used to driving everywhere.



    Start looking around Silver Lake Blvd, Silver Lake Drive. Hyperion Avenue has a little more businesses on it, but isn't as quiet or safe.

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    Is it a bad idea to live in a single apartment during 1st year of university?

    I am 18 and I was accepted to a program I really wanted to get into however having seen the residence, it does not look like a place I want to live while away at university. Is it a bad idea to rent a single apartment. I am an independent person but I do want to meet people. Will I still be able to meet people if I get an apartment over living in residence?

    What are thePros and cons of living in an apartment and living in residence for first year?

    My parents are fully supportive either way!

    ThanksIs it a bad idea to live in a single apartment during 1st year of university?
    Could you maybe get a 2 or 3 bedroom apartment with other students? It helps to split costs if you have roommates. It can be hard to meet people if you don't live in the dorms, but it can certainly be done. If you don't like the residence, I would recommend getting an apartment but definitely go for roommates if you can!

    What can I do to come,live and work in USA specially like a nurse ,to help the people when they are seek?

    As I said I want to to come and help the people in USA because in Albania did not gave me the oportunity to work in hospital or any healthcare instituston because the place were beasy and for another reason to be better economical.I live with my mother and my father too and my father gets 160dollars and I 200dollars my mother with out job when 1kg butter is5dollars,1kg cheese3dollars,1kg meet 5dollars,1liter gas for cooking and warming1dollar,1kw energy0.1dollar,1kg apple 0.5dollar,1kg orange 1dollar.Tell me what can I do with 360dollars in month will this things include and wearig things like clothes and shoes those are too expensive.What can I do to come,live and work in USA specially like a nurse ,to help the people when they are seek?
    Things aren't much better over here. There is, however, a constant demand for nurses though. I still cannot believe people want to come here.



    "the more qualified a person you are, the better your odds such as a college degree, what kind of job you hold, all the kinds of things that would make you a more 'qualified citizen' for america. first off you would need a visa to visit, and then obtain a green card, lastly you can gain citizenship, are you hoping to become a permanent US resident/citizen?"

    Whats a good meeting place for 3 people in different states?

    here are the towns we live in ...

    Liberty, South Carolina

    El Paso, Texas

    and

    Ames, Iowa



    where would be a town inbetween us that one of us wouldnt have to drive alot father then the others?Whats a good meeting place for 3 people in different states?
    Ha, small world, I live in Clemson SC....



    Well, it looks like Dallas might be the straightest, closest to center shot for you all. Still, that's going to be about nine hours of driving all around, a little more for your friend is Iowa. There's really not a big city you can stop in and regardless, you'll all be driving a long, long way.



    With gas prices the way they are, it might be easier and cheaper to just fly somewhere to meet. I would check out last minute deals on expedia or priceline. Good luck!
    how about Branson, Missouri? it's about the same distance and you can go to the shows and stuff there.Whats a good meeting place for 3 people in different states?
    You could just use skype.
    as long as you're all traveling and not going one person's house, no one should complain. get together and start naming resorts.

    like the hershey spa, disney...wherever.Whats a good meeting place for 3 people in different states?
    well there is always going to be closer to one of the three



    I'll say Oklahoma, Missouri or Arkansas.



    have a safe trip

    Hey every girl, I live around Detroit Metro area and I am interested in meeting and dating and a nice girl.?

    I am 22, a college student, and I am fun a person. I like to try new things.Hey every girl, I live around Detroit Metro area and I am interested in meeting and dating and a nice girl.?
    If you are looking for a good girl look on campus or go to a nice lounge or even a book store or something. I live in Detroit and there isn't a lot of places to meet nice people you usually run into nuts...thats why i am moving to florida...good luckHey every girl, I live around Detroit Metro area and I am interested in meeting and dating and a nice girl.?
    I live around Detroit and am 21, but taken. I just wanted to give a shout-out the the D though!Hey every girl, I live around Detroit Metro area and I am interested in meeting and dating and a nice girl.?
    Here's another shout out from the Detroit area! Good luck to you, try hanging out with your friends...you're bound to meet someone new when you least expect it.

    A and B live 3 mi. apart. A walks 2.5mph and B walks 3.5mph. How far will A walk before meeting B?

    If you combine their speeds and consider them as just one person going from A to B, their speed is 6 mph. This makes the time to cover 3 miles half an hour, or 30 minutes. Then take this answer and use the distance = rate x time formula and solve for D to get 1.25 miles (D = 2.5 x 0.5)
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    I live in nc as well and a lot ofmy gay friends go to clubs or meet ppl in school...Well im 16 an live in north carolina but i have no idea on how to go about meeting other gay teens in my area?
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    Google- gay teen north carolinaWell im 16 an live in north carolina but i have no idea on how to go about meeting other gay teens in my area?
    just put yourself out there!

    at school in clubs, outside school, online, everywhere!
    when the right time comes?

    How many loopholes to jump through, to live in Ireland?

    I've been gathering all of the information I can about moving to Ireland.



    I thought it'd be easier. After getting the passport, it seems my only option is staying there less than 90 days, and the only way I can stay longer is by obtaining a work visa. And... to achieve dual-citizenship by naturalisation (I'm not directly related to any Irish citizens), I'd have to be a resident of Ireland for at least a few years.



    No problem, except the only way I can be a resident there for that long, is by obtaining the work visa, which I heard is very hard to get.



    After completing all these tasks, I'll have to contact the Minister of Foreign Affairs, and ask his permission, after meeting the list of requirements.



    Is it really this incredibly difficult? Hopefully I'm missing something, at this point it seems like it'd be easier to become an astronaut, than live in Ireland.



    Help would be most appreciated

    Thank you!How many loopholes to jump through, to live in Ireland?
    It really is that difficult. It has to be. We are a small country and we already have free travel with all the EU countries. We cant make it easy for everyone.



    You have to get a work permit.

    http://www.entemp.ie/publications/labour鈥?/a>



    To get a work permit you need the job offer first.



    An easier way is to get a job where you are in a company that can transfer you to Ireland.

    http://www.entemp.ie/publications/labour鈥?/a>



    Even that is difficult.



    The easiest way would be to come and study in Ireland. Once you have earned your degree you can apply for the 3rd Level Graduate Scheme. Basically your student visa gets extended by 6 months once you finish your degree and you can stay and look for a job. If you get a job then you can get a permit.

    http://www.entemp.ie/labour/workpermits/鈥?/a>



    Of course it will it will be expensive for you to study in Ireland.



    Once you have a work permit its not that hard. Provided you dont lose your job you just keep renewing the permit. ONce you've been here 5 years you can apply for citizenship. It all just paperwork.How many loopholes to jump through, to live in Ireland?
    You can do it the really easy way like I did: find yourself an Irish citizen, fall in love, get married: SORTED!



    (the 'falling in love part' is not entirely neccesary, but definetly recommended...)





    ps. if you work in IT, it is much easier to do the whole work permit thing. The economy (in the west anyway..ie Galway) is very computer-industry driven and they're always looking for good people.How many loopholes to jump through, to live in Ireland?
    You can get your work visa with a letter offering employment from a registered employer. If you have a particular skill or specialisation that's hard to source in Ireland, then it shouldn't be too difficult.