Weird to talk about marriage and children when first meeting?

It seems like our society is not interested in marriage at all, we have both men and women waiting to walk down the aisle until their late 30's. With that said what is your interpretation of 20 year olds who discussed living together, marriage, and children when they first meet ? Extremely romantic, down right lame or something else?Weird to talk about marriage and children when first meeting?
No way. If you know what you want why should you beat around the bush... People have sex on the first date and that seems totally normal to most of our society. Why should marriage and kid talk be weird? There should be more talking and less physical activity on the first date.
I like that idea... i wish more ppl would do that. When i first meet a guy, these concens come into my mind first and they stay there until they're discussed. But they're usually not discussed until much later. You're right that it's considered weird and not normal. The person that brings it up is seen as being psycho or over eager, desperate, etc. So to not make ourselves seem this way, we wait to discuss it. But imo, it's a huge waste of time.Weird to talk about marriage and children when first meeting?
WEIRD? PSHYCO is more like the word! RUN!
Depends

Was it a heavy conversation or chit chat?

A little lame maybe, but some people want to do things right from the startWeird to talk about marriage and children when first meeting?
I think it means that you are very attracted to each other, but realize that it is important to know how each other feels about the important issues. The more you can talk about and get a feel for what the other person really expects from a life commitment, the better you will deal with what happens.

If you want 6 kids and he is anti children, then it won't work!
20 year olds have no business be married and having children... you aren't mature enough and aren't even old enough to be finished with college...
i dont care how old someone is, if you talk about marriage on the first date...even second its very odd and makes you look desperate lol. I find it wonderful that woman now dont feel like they need a man to take care of them and can live there own life first before they marry later in life...nothing wrong with it. I think alot of women back in the day were raised to believe the man supports the wife, while the wife stays home and takes care of the home. well thats silly, marriage is equal and men and woman share responsibilities. women dont need a man to take care of then just like men dont need a woman to clean up after them.
No ,these things are important to know!
Men who are pushy and have a poor sense of the appropriate have a tendancy to turn out to be controllers. So, something else. A little scary.



We have conventions in our society for a reason. It's not romantic to rush into marriage. It's sad and shows a lack of judgment.



I taught my daughters to wait. Get an education, travel, achieve professionally and wait. Have something to offer when you marry. Don't do it out of desperation because that's all that's available to you.



My 26 yo is waiting. That shows judgment.