How to relax meeting my internet friend?

i met this guy online and i really like him and decide to meet him.. im really super nervous..

i have social anxiety so i dont know what will happen.. but i will give it a go.

hes harmless, and i've known him for 1 month. but we live near each other so we thought we meet.How to relax meeting my internet friend?
its good for me
And you just know he is harmless because you both wrote a few words to each other for 1 month? He has only told you what he wants you to know, just like you probably haven't told him all of your faults. I think this is a bad idea, but you will probably go ahead with it anyway. Like someone else posted, tell lots of people what you're doing so they will know where to start looking.How to relax meeting my internet friend?
I agree with Adam. Do NOT go alone, It is a stupid thing to do. I personally would have waited a bit longer to meet this person (Talking over a year...). If you are set into meeting this person: TAKE someone with you, Or tell someone you're going so they will know where you are at all times and if the worst comes to the worst, They will know where you were last seen.
I have met some of my online friends in real life and most of them turn out to be pretty decent people. If you do plan on meeting someone that you have only talked to online, I would suggest that you do it either in a group setting or at least at a public place. Have coffee at McDonald's or somewhere you feel safe in your town. If you're too nervous, bring someone with you like an adult friend or relative. I hope everything goes well for you.How to relax meeting my internet friend?
I'm warning you mino, do not, and I repeat DO NOT go if your going alone, and don't go with another girl, go with someone who'll protect or gt him to come to your house when your parents are their and make sure the doors Locked and stuff, he could be a rapist, murder, both and etc.
"Harmless?" I think you're deluding yourself, there is no way you can know that for sure. You MUST bring along a few friends; they can sit nearby and keep an eye on you, meet in a restaurant for lunch (NOT dinner, keep it in the daytime) and tell others where you're going and his name, etc do NOT tell him where you live, make NO commitments.
You are naive to think you know he is harmless because you two have written to each other for a whole month! WOW! A month... why not just get married? Sorry for the sarcasm but, really, you know absolutely nothing about this guy other than what he WANTS you to BELIEVE. He's likely a 45 year old sex pervert who only wants one thing. If you must meet him do what the other posters have said and take a friend and meet in a VERY public place like a restaurant. When you are done make sure he does not follow you home. DO NOT invite him to your house regardless of whether or not someone else will be home. That information could prove to be deadly in the future. Good things are worth waiting for.
I would simply say don't go you never know what could happen. You don't want your name on the headlines saying murdered do you?
Do you have the desire to meet a total stranger who could even be someone else. Or someone else is sent to meet you. I went to meet someone online once, when I arrived there were three guys sitting at the table. So many YA users say these online persons are not the same in real life. They have glossed over all their faults. I hate resorting to this way to meet a man. I like to see what Im getting myself into and develop some friendship with the guy first.still if you go ahead do meet in public and tell a close friend or family member where you are and when you expect to return. If you feel uneasy just walk away as quickly as possible. if you google craigslist killer you will see that these replies warning you off the idea have much credibility to them.