Sunday, February 12, 2012

I'm going to be meeting someone in real life that I met on Facebook?

I met this woman on Facebook, and she just so happens to live in the same town as I. We're gonna meet together soon, and I want to be as safely prepared as possible since I haven't met her in real life yet. I would maybe like to bring someone with me to wherever we meet for safety, but I don't want to insult her by doing that...... Would y'all have any tips for this? Thanks!I'm going to be meeting someone in real life that I met on Facebook?
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Bring somebody and do NOT disclose personal infos such as address or your job and/or school, she should not be insulted that you bring somebody and should understand, maybe talk to her about it and clarify in case it was understood that it would only be the 2 of you, but also pay ATTENTION to weather or not she is okay with you bringing somebody as if its legit then it could make her nervous being around 2 people she does not know, you both should bring a friend. But also if she says no no and no to you wanting a safe location or having somebody you know come along then you may wish to be weary. I would also suggest checking out her Facebook and looking at pictures of her and make sure its the same person in every picture. Look for things that lack general consistency^^I'm going to be meeting someone in real life that I met on Facebook?
Let everyone know what you're doing. Give them this person's name, and location if you have it. And her description.



Meet in a public place. If you don't want to bring someone with you, bring them but have them stay away from you. If you're at a restaurant, have them sit at another table. Doing this gives you a witness, if you will, and they'll have a description of the stranger!



You can't be too careful these days.
Bring your friends with you , also bring someone strong , if its a setup she could have some friends with her and just lead you off somewhere.



maybe bring another guy %26amp; girl for a double date?





that should not be offensive.



Becareful... never trust any1 in these days too many people gettin drugged on dates you can never be to safe never leave your soda's or drinks or food alone..I'm going to be meeting someone in real life that I met on Facebook?
Bad, bad, bad idea. Just the other day, a young girl went to meet a guy she met on facebook and she was murdered. You probably didn't hear about that if you don't live in Australia. But it's an incredibly stupid thing to do, even if you're sure she's a good person.



If you MUST meet her... Bring a whole bunch of people with you, who cares if it's insulting, you gotta be careful!
Well, still I warn you to be very careful, but 9 times out of 10 it'll be fine. Dont worry.

Just say 'do you mind if i bring a friend?' maybe she could bring one of her friends too? So she dosn't feel left out. If you have a friend their, it often makes conversation easier, and if anything does happen, she's their for you? If you understand me?
That would be a smart thing to do. There's nothing insulting about it. You can casually introduce your companion as if it is the most natural thing, and think nothing of it.
Meet in a public place with lots of people around. That is generally the safest way to meet with people you do not know.

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