What are some good tips on meeting girls at the beach, how to approach them, and engage them in conversation? What are some good icebreakers? What should I do if a girl shows interest in me? Everybody please help as much as you can. I live on Long Island in New York and going to the beach is a big part of the Summer here.|||First of all be classy.
Don't use pick-up lines. Not only are they extremely cheesy but it makes you sound a little bit desperate as if you can't think of something normal to say so you turn to a pick-up line.
Personally I think you should be straight forward.
Go up to her and ask her, her name.
If she seems stuck up then don't bother with her.
Also if the girl doesn't seem interested she most likely isn't and the last thing a girl wants is to be chased around by a guy she doesn't like.
I am a girl and I would know these things.
If I were that girl I would just want the guy to cut to the point.
Not any of that accidental bumping into you crap.
But if you just don't feel comfortable being straight forward then do something settle to get her attention.
Like maybe aim a beach ball in her direction (not at her!) and go to pick it up and apologize.
That could start a convo.
But overall just be a gentlemen and be polite and respectful.
I hope this helped!|||Just be respectful, introduce yourself and ask what her name is. As for conversation starter you can ask her if she is from around here or out of town you can also ask her where her favorite place to eat is on the beach and if you can take her there (if things are going well) bring along some of your friends and hers to make it less awkward.|||First, don't be afraid to aproach girls you like. Second Act confident even if you arn't (not cocky though). Say hello, and give her an honest compliment. Watch her (not in an obvious way) before you aproach her for a few minutes and look for conversation starters, "oh, is that the new Iphone, how do you like it". If she seems receptive, get her number, if not, move on. Don't be afraid of rejection. Oh, never used the cheesy "do you need help with your sunscreen? line. Every halfway decent girl at the beach has heard it.|||Go like:
Hey baby what's up? Then break the ice!
Ahaha joking, unless you're the hit on everyone type then feel free to.
But like one of the answers someone said to bump into them [as long as there's no hunk dude around her]. Usually I find that type of pattern where someone bumps into another and look at each other for a while or something and maybe notice each other, unless you're just another someone to that person and she just goes like "oh no problem" and walks away.|||well ...first of all...
get your six packs..girls will find it very attractive..
next confidence..
just simply make an eyes contact before get in any conversation..and of course smile at them...if they smile back..means she is open to you to met her up..
FORM
F-family...ask them about their family.
O-ocupation..what they do..
Recreations..what is their hobbies..
Money-ask you would they do if they have alot of money..
well..sumtime its may be very hard to start a conversation..
but when there is a open up question get started..
it will went smooth...
good luck dude..|||I also live in L.I (great neck) jones beach, right? =] okay well just make eye contact (like 5sec) and if she looks and smiles to her friend, just approach her later (maybe when shes still with her friend, it will give her confidence to go out with you) but you seem pretty cute =P or start a volleyball/soccer/etc. game and say that you need players. hope this helped! (finally no rain, ehh?)|||1,Make sure theres no beach hunk with her.
2. Maybe accidentily bump into her, frisby or an animal gets loose(dog).
3, after bumping apologize, ask if you new her, listen to her reply
(yes=Oh, if you need anyone to show you around im here, oh an btw im ______. Wait me and my buddies are going for______ wanna go?)
(No=really never seen you around im ____, nice to meet ya. A few of my budies and me are going for ____, wanna go?)
If theres any interest she'll go. If not try again.
And after a while(dont be egger) ask her on an actual date, and just take it from ther
e.
%26lt;3hope i help:-)|||A five minute interaction with me:
Me Hey, you look cute. I have to get back to my friends in a minute, but I'd like to introduce myself. I'm Fred.
Girl blablabla
Me Oh cool I knew a girl named blabla in 4th grade. I thought she was really cute and we were boyfriend and girlfriend but all of the other little 4th graders made fun of us because they thought we had cooties. Tell me blabla, what do you have going for you besides looks?
Girl I'm a mega slut/I'm smart/I'm fun/it doesnt really matter
Me alright alright sounds cool. I have to go now but you seem pretty cool.
At this point I hand her my phone and she puts her number in.
After that, I will call her when I remember something about how good she looked and arrange plans.|||You could do the whole "I came here to do some lame frisbee ploy but the truth is I think you're gorgeous and I wanna buy you a drink".
A guy did that to me once and as he was running over to us we knew he was gonna do some cheesy line but when he said that we just laughed and went for beers with him.|||asking a girl if she would like a drink is always a good ice breaker and could strike up a conversation if she's interested. just make sure she's there alone before you do. you could just walk up and say hi...that never hurt. or you could walk the beach and collect numbers if you choose but that never worked too good for me....but to each his own|||Easy. Just walk up with a friend. "Hey this is my friend..____" :D "And I'm ___" Odds are she'll introduce herself. :], and a good ice breaker is complimenting her body, or her eyes or something. Not something like, "You have really gorgeous eyes." Cause thats a bit early and might scare her away. Maybe, something like, "You have nice eyes." Thats super cute in a guy. %26lt;3 Go on from there. ^_^|||If you want to turn the beach into a meat market, just bring alcohol and share it with the meat.
Does this sound extremely sexist? I don't employ these techniques, just my observations. It works in singles bars, why not on the beach.|||run up to them and say have you seen my beach ball it about this big(flex arms in a circle shape) and it went that way (the flex point) and your golden|||i absolutely agree with twilight lover- a dog is the best conversation starters!! ..me and my dog are at the beach every morning and always being approached by people.
get a nice one though :)|||You do what i do and wear your firefighter turnout gear. Or bring a firetruck. Girls love it.|||if they are wearing a two peice don't stare at thier boobs..... Just look into thier eyes... Also even if they turn away try not to look at their but only when u think its safe...|||Just go up and talk to them! Confidence is a big thing..If they laugh or smile then you're doing good.|||NUMBER 1 RULE: Make sure she is single|||ask her politely|||Say, "Yo B*tch! get your @$$ over here now!" Jk just be nice and respectful.|||How about
"hi my name is Ryan"|||Smile and always ask how are you doing miss. Give compliments!|||I personally think you're good looking. You'll be okay, just stand there and look pretty. j/k Go get 'em tiger :)|||say, Cool Bathing suit, and smile!|||act sexc|||lol...........my help could be biassed in fovour of me.|||Ice Breaker 1:
Go to the beach with a friend and toss a Frisbee around. Sometimes people will see how much fun you're having, and they may ask to join in. If this doesn't work, have your friend "accidentally" throw the frisbee near some hot gals once in a while. That way you can "accidentally" let them check you out as you run over to retrieve it. Ask if they want to throw the Frisbee around with you. If they say no, press them a little further and say, "C'mon it'll be fun." Otherwise, be sure to wish them a nice day if they absolutely won't do it. Just don't apologize for speaking to her or interrupting her sunbathing. They might agree to watch, so long as they don't have to play. If this happens, then you are welcome to talk to her while you toss the frisbee around. As long as your friend keeps throwing the frisbee neary, you will have plenty of opportunities to accidentally be jumping all over them. As long as you are confident and they seem to be enjoying your conversation, then they won't mind the silly mishaps and the extra attention you are giving them. Feel free to ask for a phone number after 20 minutes or so of hanging out, and then go for a snack break with your friend, and return to somewhere else on the beach.
Ice Breaker 2:
Alternatively, you could do the same thing with a volleyball. Go around the beach recruiting players to join you for a match game. A match game should only take about 20 minutes or so. For most people hanging out at the beach, a game is a welcomed excuse to have fun for a little while, and also a great excuse to hop into the water later on to clean off.
Take it to another level:
Remember the snack break I recommended you take after talking to the girls for a while? Why not invite them along? Let them know that you know a great little place that serves soft serve ice cream, pizza, coffee, or something else that is acceptable for people dressed for the beach. The great thing about ice cream, coffee, and pizza is that you don't have to sit around for a long time waiting for food. Since most women have a strong defensive wall, you can lower that barrier by suggesting something like ice cream or coffee, because doing that together for 5 to 20 minutes won't sound so bad. And besides, they are probably dehydrated from being at the beach, so it's a nice excuse to get out of the harsh sun rays for a little while and get something refreshing.
Whatever happens, make sure you say the words "What's your phone number? You're fun to talk with." You're much more likely to get what you want with a positive statement like that than simply by begging her and saying "Can I have your phone number?"|||Just don't be a d ick, be nice and respectful and don't worry about making a fool of yourself.
Don't be a sleaze, don't try and act cool because you'll just look like wanker.
It doesn't really matter what you say, don't do pickup lines cause they're gross and awkward and just no.
Any decent girl will be nice to you as long as you don't come off as a sleazy creep.
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