Sunday, February 12, 2012

My boyfriend wants me to live with him for a month, should I?

Me and my boyfriend lives in America. I'm american and he's Kenyan. I love him he loves me. He wants me to live in Kenya with him for a month to meet his family and friends. He told everyone that we was getting married and I didn't even say yes or no. I don't mind meeting his family. But I'm nervous because he might change to a person I don't know. What should I do?My boyfriend wants me to live with him for a month, should I?
well what if he doesn't change? what if you regret it...he might be the one for you



but i think you need to tell him to slow down on the marriage thing if you haven't exactly said yes, (in a more polite way ofcourse)..



but meeting his family and staying with him will probably bring you guys closer than ever...do it!
I say go for it Nicole. I don't like the idea of him telling everyone your going to get married when he hasn't even proposed, but traveling is always an adventure and if he does change into something you don't like, then your seeing a side of him that you will have to accept should you decide to marry him some day. Better to find that out about quirks he might have now, then down the road.My boyfriend wants me to live with him for a month, should I?
Hi well for god's sake be careful coz he seems to think he is going to control u see in Kenya women are of less standing meaning,Men are all powerful and are to be obeyed etc.



Having said that he might not be one who has these traits BUT still all the same make sure u have return ticket organised YES 鈾?/div>
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Love comes with trust.



Reading your question seems that are yet to trust him fully. This means, you would need more time to decide if you really love him.



It is not bad to take time. But don't make a mistake to think that it is love, when you cant trust him fully. Take a decision that you shouldn't repent later!My boyfriend wants me to live with him for a month, should I?
I don't know your age but yet my suggestion is just avoid this type of proposal before marriage.(anywhere you may live but keep maintain my suggestion)



Thank you in advance

Subhachintak
Talk to him about your worries

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